When I Thought Truth Was Enough I used to pride myself on being bold. I said what was on my mind and didn’t worry about who it offended. In my mind, it was truth—and truth mattered more than feelings. But looking back, I can see the real problem: It wasn’t just what I said… it was the condition of my heart. My words weren’t rooted in love. I judged quickly. I reacted emotionally. I put myself first... And it showed up in ways I can’t ignore: I missed my son’s baseball games I

What God taught me about looking inward first and loving others the right way \\\\\\\\\\\\\ When I Thought I Was “Speaking Truth” I used to think being “bold in truth” meant pointing out what was wrong in other people. At a job I truly loved—one I later lost—I found myself constantly noticing the flaws in my coworkers. The way they handled things. The decisions they made. The attitudes they carried. And in my mind, I justified it. I told myself I was just being discerning. Th

Trusting God to redeem your past and guide your future, step by step Haunted by ‘What Ifs’ Have you ever been haunted by a single choice—or by all the “what ifs” that followed? I know I have. For years, anxiety ruled my heart. I replayed decisions I regretted and wondered how life might have been different: Would my life have turned out better if I hadn’t made that choice? Would my career have been easier? Could I have avoided mistakes that still weigh on me today? For a lo